When choosing a harness, make sure it is appropriate for the kind of dildo you prefer. Dildos with a flared base and realistic dildos with balls will work well with this leather harness. The Terra Firma Harness will fit up to 45" waists. The leather straps hold the o-ring in place with snaps and the buckles you will find most accommodating for fit around your waist and legs. Keep your leather harness in topnotch condition so it will last for years to come. Forbid yourself nothing!